Girly Milestone Weekend

Woo! I went home to Toledo this weekend for my sister’s bridal shower. By a wonderful coincidence my best friend had her baby, with perfect timing, the day before and the next town over.

So picture, if you will, me running around the county in earrings and skirts and curly hair from Womanly Milestone to Womanly Milestone — and actually keeping my shit together. I.e. NO TEARS. Okay just one little tear, hardly counted. Okay okay, two tears, barely anything. High fives, high fives, thank you very much.

Beautiful weather, beautiful party, beautiful baby. I can’t have Bridal Fever because I’m already married but I could sure use a Baby Fever inoculation right quick.

Summer Skirt Sew-Along

I saw on the Sew,Mama,Sew Blog that there will be a Summer Skirt Sew-Along on the SMS forums. Thanks to Swaptree, I have a copy of Sew What Skirts coming at me in the mail this week. I’m think now would be a good time to make a 70’s-ish, dark denim version of this wrap skirt:

Wrap skirt, thrifted sheet

perfect for summer and could take me right into fall, especially with the new hippy-dippy Mary Janes I bought at Goodwill last week.

thrift store shoes

Dinner

(Gardening is still kind of weird to me. It feels like … like I’m just taking handfuls of my yard and calling it food. But oh, when those peppers and tomatoes finally come in? CAN’T WAIT.)

Haircut report

Breathe again, my friends, for I am here to tell you all about my hair. I know you were worried.

I had an appointment today at the Fountain of Youth salon in Cranberry, which I chose solely because it’s Aveda-affiliated, and I have always had extremely reliable results from Aveda salons. However, finding this place was like finding that twelfth egg on Easter morning: impossible, and the longer it remains elusive the more panicked you feel. It ended up taking three phone calls, 55 minutes and a stop at the Marriott for directions before I found it, half an hour late and hyperventilating from an anxiety attack.

Which … is pretty much par for the course whenever I try to get a haircut.

So. I go in. I ask for layers. The lovely stylist delivers. It’s pretty much exactly what I was looking for: a bit of shape, a bit of bounce, and the ability to wash and go with my waves. Plus she closed out with a hand massage — unexpected, but Aveda is like that — and made the whole event a good one. I like her work.

The documentation effort was not so successful.

Attempt at selfportrait number one: Unisex bathroom at Sheetz gas station:

Oh hey just reporting on my hair from a sheetz bathroom

Attempt number two: My bathroom, with Photoshop actions:

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Plus about 25 other attempts. But I just can’t bring myself to put any more pictures of my face on Flickr today.

Except this one, which shows how curly she got it.

Yeah no seriously though. It's curly now.

hair experiment

experiment day 2
still tired, though
self selfportrait in purple bathroom hark, i am serious

ARGH.

As we all know, I have been battling this weirdo head of hair for some time.

I never know what to do with it or how to take care of it or how to style it. It’s huge, it’s fluffy, it’s puffy, it’s dry. It waves weirdly and sticks out funny and it’s just big. It’s at my shoulders now, and blow drying it straight takes, no joke, like an hour. So I want to learn how to wear it natural, with the wave that it wants to do. But if I do that it looks like shit.

I’m experimenting this week with washing it with conditioner*, which sounds weird but totally agrees with my scalp and at least tones down the fluff’n’puff. Hairwise … it’s not been a very successful experiment so far. It’s either frizzy or lanky. I can’t figure out how to style it.

So tomorrow I am taking The Next Step, which means driving to the nearest Aveda salon and putting my tender tendrils in the hands of an expert and saying PLEASE HELP ME NOT LOOK LIKE A MUPPET ANYMORE.

Wish me luck.

*I should mention that I found out about this method via two links on NotMartha.org:

Laura Lee’s guide to going CG and this ask.metafilter post.