One week
Posted on | June 15, 2007 8 Comments | e-mail | print
Hey! Just like that annoying Barenaked Ladies song I’ve got stuck in my head!
So Cormac is one week old today. We’re doing pretty well as a family of four. My blogging time is about negative a hundred minutes a day, meaning I have a deficit of nerdery going on here, and also a deficit of sleep, and that’s why this sentence is not making any sense.
So, without further ado OR further, uh, confusingness, a brief bulleted list of highlights. And lowlights. And you know what? This is reminding me that I really need a haircut.
- Nursing! Is working! This deserves it’s own post because I am OMFG so excited about this. I mean, there are bloodstains on my washable nursing pads from when I tried with Owen, if that gives you any indication of the utter lack of success I had last time. This time? OK, it’s not “fun” or “comfortable” exactly but it also finally doesn’t hurt or make me cry or want to die or run away. He eats and I think — I certainly hope — that he is growing. So I’m psyched.
- Best postpartum recovery ever. I can’t like run a marathon or anything but I am feeling very good. No stitches. A prescription for Percoset. No more pregnant belly. I can sleep like a log. Things are good in the My Body arena.
- Um. We have fish? I had forgotten. There are three left. Their names are Not Dead Yet, Still Alive, and That Other One.
- Iain totally and completely rocks the house as a dad.
- Owen, for the most part, is a totally awesome big brother. He likes to touch the baby’s feet and is actually quite possessive at times: “DON’T TOUCH my BABY,” he will tell me. Quite bossily, if you can’t tell. But at other times you can tell he’s not really liking things. This morning he came into our bed at about 6:30. Mac was in there sleeping next to me. I was trying to nurse him laying down which was a big stupid mistake (things do not line up well in that position) and Owen was thrashing around. Eventually he turned sideways in the bed, looked me straight in the eye and put his feet on the baby’s head. I don’t know why except that he very much was rather sick of the whole thing at that point. I don’t blame him, the little dude. I was the oldest child, too; I know what it’s like to be pushed out of the limelight by a new sibling. Hopefully he doesn’t try to knock this one off a great height — literally — as I did with my sister. Sorry, Em!
- Sleep. I am getting a little. Mac nurses every couple hours from 6 or 7 a.m. until about 5 or 6 p.m. Then it’s every hour until midnight. Then a three or four hour break, til about 3:30 a.m., then up again at 6 or 7. I usually get one nap, but all that broken sleep — whew. I forgot how torturous that is. And also, that the majority of the time Owen is home and awake I am stuck in the recliner with a baby on my tit. Poor Owen.
- Also. Today is his last day of school. Daycare. Whatever. His last day ever, due to money reasons and the new work schedule I will have when I go back. I am glad I am not allowed to drive yet and therefore not the one picking him up or dropping him off because I would be a wet sobbing mess of emotion. So much heartache and joy went into that, me bringing him to school, him learning new things from new people, making friends, socializing. OK. Seriously. Crying now. I’m glad to have him home with me now but I will miss him having “school” to go to.
OK. That’s about all I have time for. Also, the Cosby Show comes on at 1 o’clock. Also, I’m still hungry. Also, Baby Mac will be waking up soon.
If I don’t post again for another week you’ll know why: My hands will be completely full.
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June 15th, 2007 @ 1:44 pm
So glad it’s going well for you; the nursing thing going well is a big deal… It sounds like you guys are all adjusting really well and he looks so darling (Owen too, of course). Good work!
Reply to thisJune 15th, 2007 @ 2:04 pm
I am so happy to read this post. So happy for all of you. You folks are a supa family. And I felt sort of weepy thinking about when Owen went to school and those first few days. Man blogging is weird.
Sniff
It must be my hormones.
Reply to thisJune 15th, 2007 @ 8:06 pm
mac! lil mac! is that his nickname, can i call him mac, too? also, that name is so much better than declan! [even though declan is great, too!] [but cormac is so cool + unique + swell!]
MARY BETH! i am so excited for you! and yaaaay for being able to nurse! and hell yeah for sleeping like ye olde log. and w00t for your bosom! and a special thank jeebus for no stitches. i was worried about you over that part, really i was. oh this is just the best!
OH! the next time i see you, it’s going to filled with eeeeee! and so much happiness. and you get to take pictures of little baby toes again!
i wanted to call you this week to say hi and congratulations, but i haven’t wanted to disturb you as you all are settling into new routines. and i reckon that this comment is taking the place of an e-mail now, but a gen-u-ine e-mail will be coming at you soon.
and new work schedule? did we ever get to share a WTF about everything that went down there? sheeeesh.
xoxo.
Reply to thisJune 16th, 2007 @ 1:44 pm
aw thank you guys.
and yes jg, we are still settlilng and whatnot but we need to catch up soon!
Reply to thisJune 16th, 2007 @ 2:12 pm
Yay! Lil Mac! Hooray! nursing. (We actually do well with the laying down, but now Colin wants to stand and lean over me like I am a water fountain. Milk fountain?) Glad to hear all is well and I’m selfishly overjoyed that you posted.
Reply to thisJune 17th, 2007 @ 9:13 pm
Wow things sound so awesome! And yayayayyaya good breastfeeding! That makes a world of a difference. And you know, things never lined up well for me with the lying down nursing, give it a couple months when you’re all nice and stretchy in the tit, it’ll all work out just fine.
So what do you mean Owen won’t have day care anymore??
Reply to thisJune 18th, 2007 @ 8:25 am
Good to hear that things are going well. I remember the stress you had putting Owen into daycare and what it might do to him, and now you’re taking him out and have a completely different perspective, no?
Rest up and relax. We can catch up whenever you’re ready to.
Reply to thisJune 18th, 2007 @ 8:59 am
Yippee! i’m so relieved. the hours definitely suck (ha) with the b-feeding, but you will be happy later when you do not have bottles and nipples to wash. that is the most annoying time-waster there is when sleep is the best thing to do with your extra time. i 2nd mama c-ta — lying down didn’t work for me for a while till he had a bigger mouth and more control over it.
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